Drive conversations, don't just HAVE conversations - January 30th, 2025

Published on 30 January 2025 at 18:33

In the upcoming time, you are being divinely encouraged to purposefully go and seek truth and clarity for yourself - of which the incentive for this seeking will be given for some of you by your partner. Actively question the things you would like to find the truth or clarity on, and use the intellect you were given for this purpose.

Make sure you make some time in the upcoming time for you to go and sit down with a pen and some paper so you can thoughtfully articulate your ideas on paper so you can introduce these reflections in your future conversations and enrich these conversations with your thoughtful and valuable perspectives. Try to drive and not just have conversations, by having the intention to have meaningful interactions and conversations with people, and make sure you try to speak in a clear tone.

Be decisive at this time, not just in life, but also in how you become a driving force in the conversations you will be having - a steering force you could also call this. You will notice that conversations will have a tendency to move in a circular motion, but you are divinely being encouraged to move those conversations in such a way that you get to the heart of the matter. You can do this by asking valuable questions in a respectful manner where you seek to understand more.

Be willing to challenge your pre-existing assumptions as you openly approach any conversations you will be having in the upcoming time, and try to be open to see things from all kinds of perspectives. Also challenge yourself to bring yourself to those deeper insights. 

Do not tolerate superficial small talk and try to seek out truth in your conversations, both in yourself and others. Speak with conviction, and have the intention to come to not just a greater understanding of the other, but to a mutual understanding. Make sure you listen as much as you are speaking and don’t dominate the discussions that you will be having.

Make sure you use your tongue in a way that is not sharp and where you are not bulldozing over others by expressing your viewpoints.Try to truly enrich any conversations you are having by actively seeking to move any conversation forward in a focussed manner where you are the driving force of the conversation. Be the visionary of the conversation. Actively seek to create a space where you both get to explore the topic at hand in a mutually enriching manner.

Learn that even confusion has its place and can be meaningful, and be patient in your conversations - leave the other time to speak. Also try to avoid all or nothing as well as right or wrong kind of thinking when approaching others. Be open in the conversations you are having, also in viewpoint and bring a lack of judgement to any conversations you will be having. Put in the thoughtful effort that a particular conversation requires as this will pave the way for future meaningful mutually enriching conversations (also in enhanced mutual understanding).

Thoughtfully engage with others’ perspectives and dare to question your own perspectives as well, while also sharing your own valuable perspectives in the conversations you are having. Perspectives you have spent the time to work out so they are truly enriching to the people you will be meeting.


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